1 00:00:40,290 --> 00:00:46,171 Attention please! This is the final call for Flight Nine… 2 00:00:55,138 --> 00:00:56,890 Um… 3 00:00:56,973 --> 00:01:02,979 Hi. So we're here on er, Tues… Wednesday. 4 00:01:03,063 --> 00:01:04,856 Wednesday, the something of March. 5 00:01:04,939 --> 00:01:08,735 Um, we've just finished, um, two weeks… 6 00:01:11,446 --> 00:01:15,909 Our final push, our last stint of royal engagements. 7 00:01:19,204 --> 00:01:23,792 It's really hard to look back on it now and go, "What on earth happened?" 8 00:01:25,585 --> 00:01:27,087 Like, "How did we end up here?" 9 00:01:28,296 --> 00:01:30,340 …fair to say Britain is in shock this morning 10 00:01:30,423 --> 00:01:31,758 …dramatic and shocking announcement 11 00:01:31,841 --> 00:01:33,551 from Prince Harry and Meghan Markle… 12 00:01:33,635 --> 00:01:36,471 I'm seeing them taking a step back from royal duties. 13 00:01:36,554 --> 00:01:41,226 Prince Harry appears to be on a trajectory of self destruction. 14 00:01:45,021 --> 00:01:47,398 H is in London and I'm here… 15 00:01:53,154 --> 00:01:54,823 I don't even know where to begin. 16 00:01:54,906 --> 00:01:56,991 -Thank you. -Thanks. 17 00:01:57,075 --> 00:01:59,202 My job is to keep my family safe. 18 00:02:03,373 --> 00:02:05,416 But the nature of being born into this position, 19 00:02:05,500 --> 00:02:08,545 amid everything else that comes with it and the level of… 20 00:02:11,005 --> 00:02:15,218 hate being stirred up in the last three years, especially against my wife 21 00:02:15,301 --> 00:02:16,553 and my son. 22 00:02:16,636 --> 00:02:18,888 Haz, is my mom outside with Archie? 23 00:02:18,972 --> 00:02:22,350 I'm generally concerned for the safety of my family. 24 00:02:23,101 --> 00:02:24,978 Stay. 25 00:02:26,729 --> 00:02:29,732 I just really want to… 26 00:02:31,568 --> 00:02:34,112 get to the other side of all of this. 27 00:02:36,072 --> 00:02:36,948 Um, 28 00:02:45,957 --> 00:02:48,209 I don't know what to say anymore. 29 00:02:51,629 --> 00:02:53,256 This is about duty and service, and I feel 30 00:02:53,339 --> 00:02:54,674 as though being part of this family, 31 00:02:54,757 --> 00:02:58,887 it is my duty to uncover this exploitation 32 00:02:58,970 --> 00:03:01,014 and bribery that happens within our media. 33 00:03:02,473 --> 00:03:06,978 Unfortunately, in not standing for something, they are destroying us. 34 00:03:09,230 --> 00:03:12,233 This isn't just about our story. 35 00:03:12,317 --> 00:03:14,569 This has always been so much bigger than us. 36 00:03:16,237 --> 00:03:18,114 This does not represent what London stands for… 37 00:03:18,197 --> 00:03:20,408 …take back control of this country… 38 00:03:20,491 --> 00:03:22,368 No one knows the full truth. 39 00:03:23,578 --> 00:03:25,413 We know the full truth. 40 00:03:25,997 --> 00:03:27,373 The institution knows the full truth, 41 00:03:27,457 --> 00:03:29,417 and the media knows the full truth 'cause they've been in on it. 42 00:03:32,545 --> 00:03:37,425 And I think anybody else in my situation would have done exactly the same thing. 43 00:04:35,733 --> 00:04:37,277 Nervous. Why am I nervous? 44 00:04:39,195 --> 00:04:41,698 I just want to start with this little moment. 45 00:04:41,781 --> 00:04:44,158 I don't think you guys have done this before. 46 00:04:44,242 --> 00:04:46,661 And I just thought I would share it with you. 47 00:04:47,453 --> 00:04:50,456 Thank you so much for tuning in. Thank you, Meghan, so much. 48 00:04:50,540 --> 00:04:53,251 Are you looking forward to watching The South to see more right now? 49 00:04:53,334 --> 00:04:54,335 Yes. 50 00:04:54,419 --> 00:04:55,878 -Do you remember? -No. 51 00:04:55,962 --> 00:04:57,672 Number one song to pick you up. 52 00:04:57,755 --> 00:05:00,758 Oh my gosh, I was just listening to it before I left! 53 00:05:00,842 --> 00:05:02,510 It's a Nina Simone song 54 00:05:02,593 --> 00:05:05,847 and it's called, "How it feels to be free." 55 00:05:05,930 --> 00:05:08,141 -Oh? No, I don't know it. -Oh, it's so good. 56 00:05:08,224 --> 00:05:09,976 -I like this song. -Okay, I'll look that up for sure. 57 00:05:10,059 --> 00:05:12,437 Fiercest female character on TV? 58 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:14,605 Who do I say? Olivia Pope? 59 00:05:14,689 --> 00:05:15,648 Olivia Pope. 60 00:05:17,608 --> 00:05:19,319 Prince William or Prince Harry? 61 00:05:21,571 --> 00:05:23,323 -I don't know. 62 00:05:23,406 --> 00:05:24,324 Harry. 63 00:05:24,407 --> 00:05:26,200 Harry? Sure. 64 00:05:28,369 --> 00:05:30,163 -Sure. -Sure. I don't… 65 00:05:30,246 --> 00:05:31,456 What year was that? 66 00:05:31,539 --> 00:05:32,999 It's October 2015. 67 00:05:33,082 --> 00:05:35,251 -October 2015? -Less than a year. 68 00:05:35,877 --> 00:05:36,961 Before we met? 69 00:05:37,045 --> 00:05:38,171 -Honey, I'm sorry. -Less than… 70 00:05:38,254 --> 00:05:40,298 -I of course choose you. -Oh okay, great! 71 00:05:41,174 --> 00:05:43,843 It just again shows how little you knew. 72 00:05:45,011 --> 00:05:47,096 And look at how far we've come. 73 00:05:53,853 --> 00:05:57,523 Look at that. How would you describe it, Archie? 74 00:05:57,607 --> 00:06:00,485 Well, it's all done beautiful. 75 00:06:00,568 --> 00:06:02,153 It's so beautiful. 76 00:06:14,791 --> 00:06:16,459 Archie, you're having fun. 77 00:06:17,460 --> 00:06:19,212 This is a great love story. 78 00:06:20,296 --> 00:06:25,593 The craziest thing is that… I think this love story is only just getting started. 79 00:06:30,890 --> 00:06:35,645 You know, she sacrificed everything that she ever knew, the freedom that she had, 80 00:06:35,728 --> 00:06:38,689 to join me in my world. 81 00:06:38,773 --> 00:06:45,363 And then pretty soon after that, I ended up sacrificing everything I know 82 00:06:46,239 --> 00:06:47,657 to join her in her world. 83 00:06:48,241 --> 00:06:50,618 Is Noah there? 84 00:06:50,701 --> 00:06:52,036 -Good morning. 85 00:06:58,709 --> 00:07:01,295 Why did you want to make this documentary? 86 00:07:03,548 --> 00:07:05,383 Um… 87 00:07:08,678 --> 00:07:10,471 I'm not gonna say that it's comfortable, 88 00:07:11,556 --> 00:07:17,228 but when you feel like people haven't got any sense of who you are for so long, 89 00:07:18,229 --> 00:07:21,023 it's really nice to just be able to have the opportunity to 90 00:07:21,107 --> 00:07:25,695 let people have a bit more of a glimpse into what's happened and also who we are. 91 00:07:30,533 --> 00:07:32,410 A friend of ours actually suggested 92 00:07:32,493 --> 00:07:35,955 that we document ourselves through this period of time. 93 00:07:36,873 --> 00:07:40,251 With all of the misinformation that was going on out there, especially about us 94 00:07:40,334 --> 00:07:43,045 and the departure, it seemed like a really sensible idea. 95 00:07:44,213 --> 00:07:46,382 Is this the first video diary? I don't know. 96 00:07:46,466 --> 00:07:49,677 We've talked about it. We keep talking about it because we know that 97 00:07:50,470 --> 00:07:53,556 right now, it might not make sense but one day, it will make sense. 98 00:07:53,639 --> 00:07:58,519 So we're here, Friday the, whatever, 17th April or something… 99 00:07:59,645 --> 00:08:01,439 Look at the snow. 100 00:08:02,398 --> 00:08:07,778 We've been really conscious of protecting our kids as best as we can 101 00:08:07,862 --> 00:08:10,865 and also understanding the role that they play 102 00:08:10,948 --> 00:08:13,242 in this really historical family. 103 00:08:13,868 --> 00:08:16,829 Vroom! 104 00:08:18,164 --> 00:08:24,253 As a dad, and as parents, I think consent is a really key piece to this. 105 00:08:24,337 --> 00:08:27,423 That if you have children, it should be your consent 106 00:08:27,507 --> 00:08:30,259 as to what you share. 107 00:08:36,891 --> 00:08:38,726 Both the babies are down. 108 00:08:40,269 --> 00:08:41,812 Nice, calm night. 109 00:08:43,314 --> 00:08:44,982 Just picking some roses. 110 00:08:46,067 --> 00:08:49,362 The past six years of my life, books are written about our story 111 00:08:49,445 --> 00:08:51,572 from people who I don't know. 112 00:08:52,615 --> 00:08:55,535 Doesn't it make more sense to hear our story from us? 113 00:09:06,754 --> 00:09:08,756 Meghan and I met in July of 2016. 114 00:09:09,757 --> 00:09:10,591 Right before we met, 115 00:09:10,675 --> 00:09:13,678 we'd gotten another season of the show, Suits. 116 00:09:13,761 --> 00:09:15,680 Then, I was single for a couple of months. 117 00:09:15,763 --> 00:09:17,390 I was like, "This is it. We're gonna travel. 118 00:09:17,473 --> 00:09:19,642 Come on, girls. Let's go." 119 00:09:25,523 --> 00:09:31,028 In the summer of 2016, she had a few different trips planned 120 00:09:31,112 --> 00:09:34,365 and she was just going to be free. 121 00:09:37,451 --> 00:09:41,956 I was really, like, intent on being single, 122 00:09:42,039 --> 00:09:43,791 and just have fun girl-time. 123 00:09:46,460 --> 00:09:48,170 She had planned her single-girl summer 124 00:09:48,879 --> 00:09:52,883 and she had a lot of plans of going around Europe. 125 00:09:56,345 --> 00:09:58,472 I had a career, I had my life… 126 00:09:59,807 --> 00:10:01,434 I had my path. 127 00:10:02,560 --> 00:10:04,562 And then came H. 128 00:10:05,354 --> 00:10:07,940 I mean, he literally… talk about a plot twist. 129 00:10:13,154 --> 00:10:15,615 Meghan and I met over Instagram. 130 00:10:16,699 --> 00:10:22,330 I was scrolling through my feed and someone who was a friend 131 00:10:22,413 --> 00:10:27,543 had this video of the two of them, like a Snapchat and um, it's… 132 00:10:27,627 --> 00:10:30,421 Oh gosh. Isn't that whole thing, it's got like doggy ears… 133 00:10:30,504 --> 00:10:33,007 -…with doggy ears and-- -That's what he saw of me. 134 00:10:34,008 --> 00:10:35,635 That was the first thing. I was like, "Who is that?" 135 00:10:35,718 --> 00:10:36,594 That's ridiculous. 136 00:10:38,804 --> 00:10:40,723 And then she sent me an email saying, 137 00:10:40,806 --> 00:10:42,767 "I know you said you're single and, 138 00:10:42,850 --> 00:10:46,896 a friend of mine asked about you and, maybe you'd like to meet him." 139 00:10:46,979 --> 00:10:49,690 And I said, "Who is it?" And she said, "It's Prince Haz." I said, "Who's that?" 140 00:10:51,942 --> 00:10:53,736 I asked if I could see his feed. 141 00:10:56,322 --> 00:10:58,491 So that's the thing. When people say, "Did you Google him?" "No." 142 00:10:58,574 --> 00:11:01,077 But I… that's your homework. You're like, "Hmm, 143 00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:02,828 let me see what they're about in their feed 144 00:11:02,912 --> 00:11:04,372 not what someone else says about them 145 00:11:04,455 --> 00:11:06,874 but what they are putting out about themselves." 146 00:11:07,583 --> 00:11:09,460 That to me was the best barometer. 147 00:11:11,128 --> 00:11:15,633 I went through it and it was just like beautiful photography 148 00:11:15,716 --> 00:11:21,514 and all these environmental shots and this time he was spending in Africa… 149 00:11:21,597 --> 00:11:22,431 Phew. 150 00:11:25,142 --> 00:11:28,312 Then we got each others' numbers. We were just constantly in touch, 151 00:11:28,396 --> 00:11:29,605 and I went, "Let's meet." 152 00:11:30,314 --> 00:11:32,566 I was in London, I was going to Wimbledon. 153 00:11:33,776 --> 00:11:35,277 We were sitting in the Player Box 154 00:11:35,361 --> 00:11:39,532 and it's diagonal to the Royal Box at Wimbledon. 155 00:11:39,615 --> 00:11:42,910 We were talking about different dates and different people that were possibilities… 156 00:11:42,993 --> 00:11:49,041 And I remember seeing an adorable actor sitting next to someone I knew. 157 00:11:49,125 --> 00:11:51,502 So I'm like, "Hey, how about him?" 158 00:11:53,129 --> 00:11:55,840 And then I think the next day, 159 00:11:56,507 --> 00:12:00,511 I found out that she was going on a date with H. 160 00:12:01,971 --> 00:12:03,556 Meghan texted me from London 161 00:12:03,639 --> 00:12:06,600 and said, "Silver, you're not gonna believe this." 162 00:12:06,684 --> 00:12:10,896 And basically, told me that she was going out on a date with him 163 00:12:10,980 --> 00:12:12,982 and we thought it was really funny. 164 00:12:13,065 --> 00:12:17,778 We were like, "In what world does this happen?" 165 00:12:35,129 --> 00:12:37,673 We met at 76 Dean Street. 166 00:12:37,756 --> 00:12:39,467 -You were late. -Mm-hmm. 167 00:12:39,550 --> 00:12:42,511 And I couldn't understand why he would be late. 168 00:12:42,595 --> 00:12:45,639 But he kept texting. He was like, "I'm in traffic. I'm so sorry." 169 00:12:47,016 --> 00:12:49,768 I was panicking. I was freaking out. I was, like, sweating. 170 00:12:51,395 --> 00:12:52,771 Then I didn't know him. 171 00:12:52,855 --> 00:12:55,983 So I was like, "Oh, is this what he does? Got it. 172 00:12:56,066 --> 00:12:57,151 Like, this I'm not doing. 173 00:12:57,234 --> 00:12:59,028 -I'm not gonna sit--" -What? What's that supposed to mean? 174 00:12:59,111 --> 00:13:01,363 Like, you're one of those guys who have so much of an ego 175 00:13:01,447 --> 00:13:05,910 that you're not gonna… that any girl would sit waiting for a half hour for you. 176 00:13:05,993 --> 00:13:08,204 I was just not interested in that. 177 00:13:08,287 --> 00:13:09,872 And then when I walked in, I… 178 00:13:09,955 --> 00:13:11,790 -a hot, sweaty, red ball of mess-- -You were just so sweet. 179 00:13:11,874 --> 00:13:14,585 She's like, "Oh, that's not… that's not what you are--" 180 00:13:14,668 --> 00:13:15,544 That's not what you are. 181 00:13:15,628 --> 00:13:16,754 -I'm so sorry. -You genuinely were, 182 00:13:16,837 --> 00:13:19,465 -like, so embarrassed and late and… 183 00:13:26,180 --> 00:13:29,683 He was just so… fun. 184 00:13:30,476 --> 00:13:32,811 Just so refreshingly fun. 185 00:13:32,895 --> 00:13:35,272 And that was the thing, we were like childlike together. 186 00:13:40,903 --> 00:13:43,989 We had a great chat for about an hour. 187 00:13:45,157 --> 00:13:47,201 I left after an hour, 188 00:13:47,284 --> 00:13:51,413 and um, I told him that I had other plans. 189 00:13:51,997 --> 00:13:54,708 Then I called him that evening 190 00:13:54,792 --> 00:13:56,877 and was like, "I'm leaving the day after tomorrow. 191 00:13:56,961 --> 00:13:59,547 Do you wanna grab dinner tomorrow night?" 192 00:13:59,630 --> 00:14:02,383 And I'm sure he thought it was so forward and American. 193 00:14:03,008 --> 00:14:05,553 I'm sure he told me it was so forward and American. 194 00:14:07,888 --> 00:14:10,933 Then, yeah. We went and had dinner the next night at the same place. 195 00:14:13,310 --> 00:14:14,603 She was late. 196 00:14:14,687 --> 00:14:16,438 I what? 197 00:14:16,522 --> 00:14:18,065 Actually, you were late. 198 00:14:18,148 --> 00:14:19,358 -I was late? -Yeah. 199 00:14:20,484 --> 00:14:22,820 Remember? You came rushing in from having a shower. 200 00:14:22,903 --> 00:14:24,864 -From Wimbledon. -Yeah. There you go. 201 00:14:24,947 --> 00:14:26,490 -Yeah. -Not half an hour. 202 00:14:26,574 --> 00:14:29,159 -No. Like five, like-- -A mere few minutes. 203 00:14:29,243 --> 00:14:31,787 -But you were quite flustered. -I hate being late. 204 00:14:32,830 --> 00:14:35,165 Well, I had come back from Wimbledon and, 205 00:14:35,249 --> 00:14:39,253 you know, when you get all dolled up… I wanted to go home and take a shower 206 00:14:39,336 --> 00:14:42,882 and then run over looking more like myself. 207 00:14:42,965 --> 00:14:45,467 I don't… You could be as late as you want, I ain't moving. 208 00:14:45,551 --> 00:14:47,219 I wanna see you again. 209 00:14:51,765 --> 00:14:57,271 There was one photo. We just wanted to capture the feeling 210 00:14:57,354 --> 00:15:01,317 of just sitting in that little restaurant and going, "Oh my gosh. 211 00:15:01,400 --> 00:15:03,235 I think we're gonna give it a go." 212 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:12,745 That was when it just hit me. I was like, 213 00:15:12,828 --> 00:15:17,875 "Okay, this girl… this woman is amazing, 214 00:15:17,958 --> 00:15:19,585 is everything that I've been looking for. 215 00:15:19,668 --> 00:15:25,257 And she's so comfortable and so relaxed in my company." 216 00:15:26,050 --> 00:15:28,218 He had a list, apparently, of what he was looking for. 217 00:15:28,969 --> 00:15:29,845 Let's not go there. 218 00:15:29,929 --> 00:15:31,388 An extensive list. 219 00:15:31,472 --> 00:15:32,932 What were a few things on that list? 220 00:15:33,015 --> 00:15:34,892 -Not sharing the list. -Okay. 221 00:15:34,975 --> 00:15:36,185 -Good, nice try. 222 00:15:36,268 --> 00:15:37,603 This is the list. 223 00:15:37,686 --> 00:15:38,896 Good answer. 224 00:15:44,485 --> 00:15:45,986 She texted me after 225 00:15:46,070 --> 00:15:50,449 and she was just like, "Silver, I'm crazy about him." 226 00:15:51,492 --> 00:15:55,788 Right after they'd met, my wife, me and him, we had dinner together 227 00:15:55,871 --> 00:16:00,584 and he sat like that, he looked at us and he said, "Guys, I met a girl. 228 00:16:00,668 --> 00:16:04,213 We've just met but I think this may be the one." 229 00:16:04,797 --> 00:16:08,258 You could tell right away that those were the eyes of someone who'd fallen in love. 230 00:16:12,846 --> 00:16:15,391 It was apparent to both of them very quickly that 231 00:16:15,474 --> 00:16:18,394 they wanted it to be something and they needed to figure that out. 232 00:16:21,271 --> 00:16:23,065 And she was giddy. 233 00:16:23,148 --> 00:16:26,568 But I also know that she was trying to live in the moment. 234 00:16:27,152 --> 00:16:29,780 She wanted to just get to know him for him. 235 00:16:30,364 --> 00:16:32,783 Not for who the public thought he was. 236 00:16:36,161 --> 00:16:39,623 I think, for so many people in the family, especially obviously the men, 237 00:16:39,707 --> 00:16:44,294 there can be a temptation or an urge to marry someone 238 00:16:44,378 --> 00:16:47,506 who would fit in the mold 239 00:16:47,589 --> 00:16:53,012 as opposed to somebody who you perhaps are destined to be with. 240 00:16:53,095 --> 00:16:57,641 The difference between making decisions with your head, or your heart. 241 00:16:58,475 --> 00:17:04,023 And my mom made most of her decisions, if not all of them, from her heart. 242 00:17:05,357 --> 00:17:06,984 And I am my mother's son. 243 00:17:21,999 --> 00:17:26,045 This afternoon, The World's Press, the World's Peoples 244 00:17:26,128 --> 00:17:30,674 have waited to congratulate the Princess Diana 245 00:17:30,758 --> 00:17:34,678 who has issued forth with a second child. 246 00:17:34,762 --> 00:17:36,013 It is a boy. 247 00:17:38,390 --> 00:17:40,726 Princess Diana with Prince Charles at her side 248 00:17:40,809 --> 00:17:43,145 gave birth on Saturday to their second son, 249 00:17:43,228 --> 00:17:48,025 a blue-eyed, six-pound, 14-oz boy who becomes 3rd in line to the British throne. 250 00:17:48,108 --> 00:17:49,359 More than 200 people, 251 00:17:49,443 --> 00:17:52,654 some of whom had waited outside the hospital all day 252 00:17:52,738 --> 00:17:56,825 gave to Prince Charles the cheers they couldn't give in person to Princess Diana. 253 00:17:56,909 --> 00:17:58,452 Everybody seems to be so happy today. 254 00:17:58,535 --> 00:18:00,913 Well, thank you very much. I couldn't be more delighted. 255 00:18:00,996 --> 00:18:02,206 We think it's smashing. 256 00:18:02,289 --> 00:18:03,749 Everyone's so over the moon about it. 257 00:18:03,832 --> 00:18:06,752 I'm very happy for Lady Diana. 258 00:18:07,419 --> 00:18:11,006 Forty-two hours old and already driving the ladies wild, 259 00:18:11,590 --> 00:18:16,136 Prince Harry made his first public outing wearing a conservative white blanket. 260 00:18:18,305 --> 00:18:23,519 Do I remember a moment when I suddenly realized that my family was different? 261 00:18:23,602 --> 00:18:25,979 Um… 262 00:18:26,063 --> 00:18:28,565 No, I think it's just… I just think it's gradual. 263 00:18:36,573 --> 00:18:38,784 I mean, there's no point that we're all sat down in the classroom 264 00:18:38,867 --> 00:18:41,829 and my grandmother stands there with a long stick, glasses on her nose and goes, 265 00:18:41,912 --> 00:18:44,790 "Right. So this is what it means to be in the royal family." 266 00:18:45,582 --> 00:18:46,583 That doesn't happen. 267 00:18:46,667 --> 00:18:49,378 Before the Service, immediate family were alone in the castle 268 00:18:49,461 --> 00:18:51,213 with just time enough for the Prince of Wales 269 00:18:51,296 --> 00:18:53,507 to explain the history of the celebrated robe… 270 00:18:54,383 --> 00:18:55,801 Prince Harry behaving impeccably. 271 00:19:04,560 --> 00:19:06,603 -Harry! -You be quiet. 272 00:19:06,687 --> 00:19:08,730 Harry, don't stand on my toes. 273 00:19:08,814 --> 00:19:12,401 William, he's a typical three-year-old… very enthusiastic, 274 00:19:12,484 --> 00:19:16,697 whereas, um, perhaps Harry is more quiet and just watches. 275 00:19:16,780 --> 00:19:18,866 -What, louder? -Louder. 276 00:19:18,949 --> 00:19:21,451 He's certainly a different character altogether. 277 00:19:21,535 --> 00:19:23,162 -Perhaps somewhere-- -Okay, here we go. 278 00:19:24,705 --> 00:19:26,874 You want it with him over there. 279 00:19:28,584 --> 00:19:31,879 But you can't control all of the people all of the time. 280 00:19:31,962 --> 00:19:32,921 Harry! 281 00:19:33,005 --> 00:19:36,675 From father, a young pianist needs a cue on where to look. 282 00:19:40,262 --> 00:19:41,221 -Tsk. -Harry. 283 00:19:45,434 --> 00:19:47,352 My childhood, I remember, 284 00:19:47,436 --> 00:19:51,231 was filled with laughter, filled with happiness and filled with adventure. 285 00:19:51,815 --> 00:19:54,776 In their imaginations, the children were already off to a fire. 286 00:19:54,860 --> 00:19:56,320 A fire! 287 00:19:59,156 --> 00:20:03,619 I don't have many early memories of my mom. 288 00:20:10,918 --> 00:20:13,879 It was almost like, internally, I sort of blocked them out. 289 00:20:19,009 --> 00:20:22,763 But I always remember her laugh, her cheeky laugh. 290 00:20:25,265 --> 00:20:27,809 I always say, "You can get in trouble, but don't get caught." 291 00:20:28,852 --> 00:20:30,896 And I'll always be that cheeky person inside. 292 00:20:32,064 --> 00:20:35,150 The young prince made a pair of cardboard binoculars, 293 00:20:35,234 --> 00:20:38,195 determined to beat the press at their own game. 294 00:20:41,031 --> 00:20:44,534 The majority of my memories are of being swarmed by paparazzi. 295 00:20:50,457 --> 00:20:51,750 Like many British families, 296 00:20:51,833 --> 00:20:54,836 the Wales's like to head for Spanish sun every August. 297 00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:58,215 Their holiday nightmare is the World's Press. 298 00:20:58,298 --> 00:21:00,759 An army of royal watchers are drawn each year. 299 00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:15,524 Rarely do we have a holiday without someone with a camera 300 00:21:15,607 --> 00:21:16,817 jumping out of the bush or something. 301 00:21:22,197 --> 00:21:24,157 Within the Family, within the system, 302 00:21:24,241 --> 00:21:28,537 the advice that's always given is, "Don't react. 303 00:21:28,620 --> 00:21:30,289 Don't feed into it." 304 00:21:34,626 --> 00:21:39,965 There was always public pressure, with its fair share of drama, 305 00:21:40,048 --> 00:21:43,593 stress, and also tears. And witnessing those tears. 306 00:21:47,347 --> 00:21:49,558 I always see it on my mom's face. 307 00:21:52,185 --> 00:21:56,273 And I guess those are the moments when I thought, "Hang on a little. What am I? 308 00:21:56,356 --> 00:21:57,899 Who am I? What am I part of?" 309 00:22:10,996 --> 00:22:16,126 The Royal Family are the most senior figures in the country. 310 00:22:17,461 --> 00:22:22,799 They are there to represent everything that is Great Britain. 311 00:22:24,885 --> 00:22:27,929 If you're British, it's very difficult to not see them 312 00:22:28,013 --> 00:22:30,265 almost as part of your extended family. 313 00:22:32,934 --> 00:22:36,813 Certainly, as I was growing up, if you'd asked me what it means to be British, 314 00:22:36,897 --> 00:22:39,858 the institution of the monarchy, 315 00:22:39,941 --> 00:22:44,154 the palaces, the individual royals, the history of the Royal Family 316 00:22:44,237 --> 00:22:48,992 is absolutely intimately linked with what the symbols of this nation are. 317 00:22:51,036 --> 00:22:54,206 It's hard to overstate, I think, the cultural significance 318 00:22:54,289 --> 00:22:56,291 of the British monarchy, 319 00:22:56,374 --> 00:22:58,543 partly because it's an ancient monarchy. 320 00:22:58,627 --> 00:23:00,921 It's existed for over a thousand years. 321 00:23:03,381 --> 00:23:08,345 And that longevity is multiplied 322 00:23:08,428 --> 00:23:11,431 by the sheer longevity of the Queen herself. 323 00:23:12,808 --> 00:23:16,394 Now follows the supreme climax of the ancient ritual. 324 00:23:17,020 --> 00:23:18,730 With the Crown of England, 325 00:23:18,814 --> 00:23:20,941 the archbishop performs the simple 326 00:23:21,024 --> 00:23:24,361 yet the most significant ceremony of the queen's coronation. 327 00:23:27,906 --> 00:23:34,496 Long live the Queen! 328 00:23:34,579 --> 00:23:37,082 I declare before you all, 329 00:23:37,165 --> 00:23:41,211 that my whole life shall be devoted to your service 330 00:23:42,003 --> 00:23:45,340 and to the service of our great Imperial Family, 331 00:23:45,423 --> 00:23:47,801 to which we all belong. 332 00:23:48,969 --> 00:23:51,972 She has been Queen for more than 70 years, 333 00:23:53,014 --> 00:23:57,144 and that's the longest reign we've ever known in our history. 334 00:24:00,647 --> 00:24:03,108 We're in a very different generation now. 335 00:24:03,191 --> 00:24:06,153 As new generations come through, 336 00:24:06,236 --> 00:24:10,615 people may start to question it. 337 00:24:10,699 --> 00:24:13,994 And I say this with absolute pure adoration 338 00:24:14,077 --> 00:24:17,873 for the family, for the people that I work with. 339 00:24:21,459 --> 00:24:24,254 But when you actually put it up to pressure, 340 00:24:24,337 --> 00:24:29,301 and you say that there is a family anointed by God, by blood, 341 00:24:29,384 --> 00:24:31,887 to rule over this country 342 00:24:31,970 --> 00:24:34,222 and other countries around the world, 343 00:24:34,806 --> 00:24:37,517 it is a difficult conversation to have. 344 00:24:38,143 --> 00:24:43,106 And so in order for the institution to survive, 345 00:24:43,190 --> 00:24:44,858 it has to modernize 346 00:24:44,941 --> 00:24:48,195 but it also needs mass popular support. 347 00:24:49,696 --> 00:24:55,368 They typically have popularity ratings between 60 and 80 percent. 348 00:24:55,452 --> 00:24:58,788 These are rankings that politicians would die for. 349 00:25:01,625 --> 00:25:04,169 But in order to survive in the future, 350 00:25:04,252 --> 00:25:07,589 they need to maintain that popularity. 351 00:25:08,882 --> 00:25:13,553 Each year, they make between two thousand and three thousand visits. 352 00:25:17,849 --> 00:25:21,770 And all the royal households have press offices 353 00:25:21,853 --> 00:25:27,776 to ensure that there is pretty constant publicity about the royal family. 354 00:25:27,859 --> 00:25:31,029 And that it is pretty constantly good publicity. 355 00:25:35,659 --> 00:25:37,077 The Family is dependent upon the British media 356 00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:38,703 to communicate its message 357 00:25:39,496 --> 00:25:42,582 to continue guaranteeing its relevance 358 00:25:42,666 --> 00:25:45,001 and presence in the British imagination, and the world. 359 00:25:51,883 --> 00:25:53,134 …thought he was going straight in the river. 360 00:25:55,971 --> 00:25:58,181 Prince William led the royal children 361 00:25:58,265 --> 00:26:01,017 to a photo call arranged by palace officials. 362 00:26:01,101 --> 00:26:04,896 Prince Harry, Princess Beatrice march behind the future king 363 00:26:04,980 --> 00:26:08,191 although Prince Andrew's other daughter, Princess Eugenie 364 00:26:08,275 --> 00:26:10,777 makes somewhat slower progress. 365 00:26:10,860 --> 00:26:12,487 The photographers and cameramen 366 00:26:12,570 --> 00:26:15,824 took pictures of all the four children together. 367 00:26:15,907 --> 00:26:18,451 Prince William was then asked how he was enjoying the skiing. 368 00:26:18,535 --> 00:26:22,580 Um, yes. I went fine. Very good. I enjoy it. 369 00:26:26,209 --> 00:26:28,086 Paparazzi used to harass us to the point 370 00:26:28,169 --> 00:26:30,672 where we had to be forced into smiling 371 00:26:30,755 --> 00:26:33,550 and answering questions to the travelling press pack. 372 00:26:34,134 --> 00:26:36,303 Would you look at this camera please? 373 00:26:36,386 --> 00:26:38,054 Just keep this one on hold for a little bit. 374 00:26:38,138 --> 00:26:39,222 William, will you help us? 375 00:26:39,306 --> 00:26:41,891 And that made me feel really uncomfortable from the get-go. 376 00:26:41,975 --> 00:26:43,560 -Can you look this way? 377 00:26:45,562 --> 00:26:47,731 Hello. Just look at this. 378 00:26:47,814 --> 00:26:48,732 You alright, Eugenie? 379 00:26:48,815 --> 00:26:50,567 -Beatrice, you alright? -Mm-hmm. 380 00:26:50,650 --> 00:26:52,402 Hello. Can we do something different? 381 00:26:52,485 --> 00:26:55,572 And then the deal was, we put our skis on, and then they'd leave us alone. 382 00:26:55,655 --> 00:26:57,699 Well, yeah, some of them would. 383 00:27:02,704 --> 00:27:04,622 But then the other ones would just follow us around, 384 00:27:04,706 --> 00:27:06,916 either taking photographs or just waiting for an accident to happen 385 00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:08,460 and then pull out their cameras. 386 00:27:08,543 --> 00:27:10,462 So it was never fair and it never worked. 387 00:27:13,340 --> 00:27:15,967 Stories about the British Royal Family 388 00:27:16,051 --> 00:27:19,512 make for very good copy, not just in Britain but around the world. 389 00:27:20,513 --> 00:27:24,642 So there's a very strong incentive for photographers 390 00:27:24,726 --> 00:27:29,814 to try to get unauthorized shots of members of the Royal Family 391 00:27:30,565 --> 00:27:33,902 because they can sell it for tens of thousands of dollars. 392 00:27:39,699 --> 00:27:42,285 My mom did such a good job in trying to protect us. 393 00:27:43,244 --> 00:27:48,166 She took it upon herself to basically confront these people. 394 00:27:50,251 --> 00:27:51,419 Please leave. 395 00:27:53,838 --> 00:27:59,344 As a parent, could I ask you to respect my children's space? 396 00:27:59,427 --> 00:28:02,764 Yes, certainly. Yes. No problem at all. 397 00:28:02,847 --> 00:28:05,850 Because I brought the children out here for a holiday. 398 00:28:05,934 --> 00:28:06,768 Right. 399 00:28:06,851 --> 00:28:08,686 And we'd really appreciate the space. 400 00:28:08,770 --> 00:28:09,813 I understand, ma'am. 401 00:28:09,896 --> 00:28:10,730 And I'm sure as a-- 402 00:28:10,814 --> 00:28:12,357 Is it possible to just get a picture of-- 403 00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:13,608 -No. -…this afternoon, 404 00:28:13,691 --> 00:28:15,026 and then we could totally leave you alone. 405 00:28:15,110 --> 00:28:17,404 If you just move over there, you're skiing 406 00:28:17,487 --> 00:28:18,863 -and I'll leave you alone. -No. 407 00:28:18,947 --> 00:28:21,449 We've had 15 cameras following us today. 408 00:28:21,533 --> 00:28:23,576 -I haven't been one of those. -No but, 409 00:28:24,369 --> 00:28:28,498 as a parent, I want to protect the children. Thank you. 410 00:28:30,041 --> 00:28:31,876 Thanks. Cheers. 411 00:28:32,669 --> 00:28:34,337 I think she had to live experience 412 00:28:34,421 --> 00:28:38,133 of how she was struggling, living that life. 413 00:28:38,716 --> 00:28:40,176 She felt compelled to talk about it… 414 00:28:40,927 --> 00:28:44,514 Tonight on Panorama, the Princess of Wales. 415 00:28:44,597 --> 00:28:46,433 …especially in that Panorama interview. 416 00:28:47,308 --> 00:28:50,437 I think we all now know she was deceived into giving the interview 417 00:28:51,271 --> 00:28:54,524 but at the same time, she spoke the truth of her experience. 418 00:28:54,607 --> 00:28:58,403 How do you feel about the way the press behaves towards you now? 419 00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:06,035 I still to this day find the interest daunting and phenomenal 420 00:29:06,119 --> 00:29:08,538 because I actually don't like being the center of attention. 421 00:29:08,621 --> 00:29:10,373 When I have my public duties, 422 00:29:10,457 --> 00:29:13,710 I understand when I get out of the car, I'm being photographed. 423 00:29:17,172 --> 00:29:20,383 But actually, it's now when I go out of my door, my front door, 424 00:29:20,467 --> 00:29:23,428 I'm being photographed. I never know where a lens is going to be. 425 00:29:28,433 --> 00:29:30,018 -Yeah, I know her. -Alright. 426 00:29:30,894 --> 00:29:35,356 My mom was harassed throughout her life with my dad. 427 00:29:36,483 --> 00:29:40,904 But after they separated, the harassment went to new levels. 428 00:29:41,946 --> 00:29:44,783 It is announced from Buckingham Palace that, with regret, 429 00:29:44,866 --> 00:29:48,703 the Prince and Princess of Wales have decided to separate. 430 00:29:48,787 --> 00:29:51,247 This decision has been reached amicably 431 00:29:51,331 --> 00:29:55,752 and they will both continue to participate fully in the upbringing of their children. 432 00:29:55,835 --> 00:29:59,047 Everything changed after we separated. 433 00:29:59,130 --> 00:30:02,050 And life became very difficult then for me. 434 00:30:04,594 --> 00:30:07,764 The moment that she divorced, the moment she left the Institution, 435 00:30:07,847 --> 00:30:09,390 then she was by herself. 436 00:30:09,474 --> 00:30:12,936 Yeah, she may have been one of the most influential, powerful women in the world, 437 00:30:13,019 --> 00:30:17,649 but she was… completely exposed to this. 438 00:30:19,859 --> 00:30:22,904 I saw things, I experienced things, I learned things. 439 00:30:24,989 --> 00:30:28,993 The pain and suffering of women marrying into this institution. 440 00:30:31,871 --> 00:30:35,416 I remember thinking, "How can I ever find someone 441 00:30:35,500 --> 00:30:39,170 who is willing and capable 442 00:30:40,296 --> 00:30:44,801 to be able to withstand all the baggage that comes with being with me?" 443 00:30:49,013 --> 00:30:53,977 Every relationship that I had, within a matter of weeks or months, 444 00:30:54,060 --> 00:30:55,687 were splattered all over the newspapers 445 00:30:55,770 --> 00:30:58,314 and that person's family harassed 446 00:30:58,398 --> 00:31:00,191 and their lives turned upside-down. 447 00:31:00,984 --> 00:31:04,988 So, you know, I mean, after one or two girlfriends, 448 00:31:05,071 --> 00:31:08,241 the third or fourth girlfriend will be like, "Hang on a second. 449 00:31:09,284 --> 00:31:10,952 I don't know if I want this." 450 00:31:13,872 --> 00:31:17,125 So when I got to meet M, I was terrified 451 00:31:17,208 --> 00:31:19,127 of her being driven away by the media. 452 00:31:19,752 --> 00:31:23,006 The same media that had driven so many other people away from me. 453 00:31:30,221 --> 00:31:33,308 I knew the only way that this could possibly work 454 00:31:33,391 --> 00:31:35,310 is by keeping it quiet for as long as possible. 455 00:31:37,979 --> 00:31:41,524 At the beginning, our relationship was this guarded little… 456 00:31:43,067 --> 00:31:44,527 guarded treasure. 457 00:31:46,362 --> 00:31:47,989 It was long-distance from the beginning. 458 00:31:49,532 --> 00:31:53,161 Everything was just texts and Facetimes 459 00:31:53,244 --> 00:31:57,582 and we just talked for hours and it just felt exciting, 460 00:31:57,665 --> 00:32:00,084 which is so weird because it wasn't exciting… 461 00:32:02,295 --> 00:32:04,797 in the way that I think people would assume that it would be. 462 00:32:06,633 --> 00:32:09,260 It was just relaxed and easy. 463 00:32:17,060 --> 00:32:18,645 We just got to know each other. 464 00:32:20,939 --> 00:32:23,316 Truly, like any other couple, we were figuring out, like, 465 00:32:23,399 --> 00:32:26,736 "What do you like to eat? What do you like to cook? What kind of movies do you like?" 466 00:32:27,820 --> 00:32:29,739 When I got to know Meghan more and more. I was like, 467 00:32:29,822 --> 00:32:32,283 "Now, I'm really, like, falling in love with this girl." 468 00:32:34,911 --> 00:32:36,746 -Oh no! -So despite my own fear, 469 00:32:39,332 --> 00:32:45,088 I just opened my heart… to see what's going to happen. 470 00:32:49,384 --> 00:32:50,510 We've gone rogue. 471 00:32:50,593 --> 00:32:51,594 We've gone rogue. 472 00:32:54,430 --> 00:32:56,849 Like, I feel like we're doing something so naughty. 473 00:33:01,437 --> 00:33:05,191 Oh my goodness. My love. 474 00:33:06,067 --> 00:33:09,570 So much of what Meghan is, and how she is 475 00:33:09,654 --> 00:33:11,614 is so similar to my mom. 476 00:33:15,159 --> 00:33:17,662 She has the same compassion, she has the same empathy, 477 00:33:17,745 --> 00:33:19,706 she has the same confidence. 478 00:33:19,789 --> 00:33:22,333 -She has this warmth about her. 479 00:33:31,592 --> 00:33:32,593 Who's that? 480 00:33:37,515 --> 00:33:39,684 I accept that there'll be people around the world 481 00:33:39,767 --> 00:33:41,269 who fundamentally disagree 482 00:33:41,352 --> 00:33:43,354 with what I've done and how I've done it, 483 00:33:44,856 --> 00:33:47,900 but I knew that I had to do everything I could 484 00:33:47,984 --> 00:33:50,069 -to protect my family. -Hey, Grandma. 485 00:33:51,904 --> 00:33:53,239 Yeah. 486 00:33:53,322 --> 00:33:55,867 Especially after what happened to my mom. 487 00:33:55,950 --> 00:34:00,538 Yeah. That's your Grandma Diana. Yeah. 488 00:34:00,621 --> 00:34:02,832 You know, I didn't want history to repeat itself. 489 00:34:16,637 --> 00:34:20,850 Diana, Princess of Wales, has died in a car crash in Paris. 490 00:34:20,933 --> 00:34:23,269 According to some reports, paparazzi 491 00:34:23,352 --> 00:34:27,023 photographers were chasing the car in which the princess was riding 492 00:34:27,106 --> 00:34:30,234 apparently in an effort to get her photograph. 493 00:34:31,110 --> 00:34:34,197 Across the world, millions are trying to come to terms 494 00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:37,533 with the awful tragedy of Diana's untimely death. 495 00:34:39,118 --> 00:34:40,870 Every proprietor and editor 496 00:34:40,953 --> 00:34:43,456 of every publication that has paid for intrusive 497 00:34:43,539 --> 00:34:45,708 and exploitative photographs of her, 498 00:34:45,792 --> 00:34:49,212 encouraging greedy and ruthless individuals to risk everything, 499 00:34:49,295 --> 00:34:53,007 in pursuit of Diana's image, has blood on his hands today. 500 00:35:00,139 --> 00:35:04,393 When my mom died, we had two hats to wear. 501 00:35:05,812 --> 00:35:09,941 One was two grieving sons wanting to cry, grieve, 502 00:35:10,024 --> 00:35:13,152 and process that grief because of losing our mom. 503 00:35:15,363 --> 00:35:19,742 And two was the royal hat, no emotion, get out there, meet people, shake hands. 504 00:35:19,826 --> 00:35:21,786 Thank you so much, thank you. 505 00:35:21,869 --> 00:35:23,621 -Harry, I'm so sorry. -I'm so sorry. 506 00:35:23,704 --> 00:35:25,414 William. 507 00:35:26,415 --> 00:35:28,251 Thank you so much. Thank you. 508 00:35:28,334 --> 00:35:31,295 Oh God, I'm going to cry. 509 00:35:31,379 --> 00:35:34,423 The UK literally swept me and William up as their children. 510 00:35:34,507 --> 00:35:36,509 Sorry. 511 00:35:36,592 --> 00:35:39,846 An expectation to see myself and William out and about 512 00:35:39,929 --> 00:35:41,472 was really hard for the two of us. 513 00:35:45,893 --> 00:35:50,857 I remember being told by my mother the news of her passing 514 00:35:52,024 --> 00:35:56,487 And then, I think like us all, we watched that funeral 515 00:35:56,571 --> 00:36:01,242 and watched him walking behind the coffin 516 00:36:16,966 --> 00:36:20,303 That's when you first really got to know him 517 00:36:20,386 --> 00:36:24,056 or saw an insight beyond a snap or a picture 518 00:36:24,140 --> 00:36:28,561 and felt that you knew him better than you did. 519 00:36:33,524 --> 00:36:36,903 I met Harry at Eton at age 13. 520 00:36:38,863 --> 00:36:42,074 We were actually in the rooms next door to each other, 521 00:36:42,158 --> 00:36:45,953 so we could lean out the window and talk after lights out. But 522 00:36:46,996 --> 00:36:50,666 I think as a young kid, you don't have the language 523 00:36:50,750 --> 00:36:53,961 to necessarily have that complicated mental health chat 524 00:36:54,045 --> 00:36:57,173 beyond, like, "How are you?" "Fine." or… 525 00:36:57,256 --> 00:37:02,303 And maybe as well, you probably veer away from having that discussion 526 00:37:02,386 --> 00:37:05,806 because it's such an emotional hot potato, 527 00:37:05,890 --> 00:37:07,516 like, if you don't know the right things to say, 528 00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:10,061 are you gonna make it worse rather than make it better? 529 00:37:10,144 --> 00:37:11,729 If you say nothing, 530 00:37:11,812 --> 00:37:14,774 you know, you're not at least making it worse. 531 00:37:16,442 --> 00:37:21,739 I believe that there was an agreement in place with the media 532 00:37:21,822 --> 00:37:26,202 that while they were at school, Will and Harry would be left a bit alone. 533 00:37:32,124 --> 00:37:37,964 But Day One we left the house to a scrum, nothing I'd ever seen, 534 00:37:38,047 --> 00:37:41,259 of flashing lights and the media all there. 535 00:37:43,302 --> 00:37:44,428 Harry! 536 00:37:46,097 --> 00:37:47,265 Harry! 537 00:37:50,226 --> 00:37:54,480 That's when all of the stuff that had happened to our mom 538 00:37:54,563 --> 00:37:56,232 started happening to us. 539 00:37:57,692 --> 00:37:59,068 Harry! 540 00:37:59,151 --> 00:38:01,904 Since Prince Harry has been at Eton, his father has tried 541 00:38:01,988 --> 00:38:05,074 to ensure he can have as normal a life as possible. 542 00:38:05,157 --> 00:38:07,493 But this latest story about Prince Harry is the third time 543 00:38:07,576 --> 00:38:11,789 the 14-year old has made headlines in the mirror since he started at Eton. 544 00:38:11,872 --> 00:38:13,374 Not every story was false. 545 00:38:13,457 --> 00:38:17,545 But there was a lot of typical exaggeration and rehashing. 546 00:38:17,628 --> 00:38:20,423 He's bouncing between the walls, he's taking drugs, drinking, he's out late, 547 00:38:20,506 --> 00:38:22,842 he's night-clubbing, he's got a girlfriend here, got a girlfriend there 548 00:38:22,925 --> 00:38:24,844 What's going on? 549 00:38:27,388 --> 00:38:30,850 You know, there's a difference between having to accept, 550 00:38:30,933 --> 00:38:33,728 Okay, we have this position in this family 551 00:38:33,811 --> 00:38:35,980 and therefore there'll be a level of interest, 552 00:38:36,063 --> 00:38:40,568 and being swarmed by paparazzi, chasing you in cars through red lights. 553 00:38:41,610 --> 00:38:44,572 And then chasing you down the road on foot, which is what happened 554 00:38:44,655 --> 00:38:46,991 probably about 30 or 40 times when I was younger. 555 00:38:51,329 --> 00:38:52,580 It was too much. 556 00:38:53,372 --> 00:38:56,167 Prince Harry got into a scuffle with photographers 557 00:38:56,250 --> 00:38:58,377 after he left a nightclub early this morning. 558 00:38:58,461 --> 00:39:01,839 Within hours of the scuffle it was headlining the tabloids. 559 00:39:01,922 --> 00:39:05,676 Harry lashed out yelling, "Why don't you just leave me alone?!" 560 00:39:09,096 --> 00:39:13,559 Everything that was happening in the UK was so intense. 561 00:39:17,063 --> 00:39:21,984 I was trying to balance the whole experience of being a young boy, 562 00:39:22,068 --> 00:39:25,654 who was trying to deal with the loss of his mom 563 00:39:25,738 --> 00:39:28,115 without much support or help or guidance. 564 00:39:29,283 --> 00:39:31,160 It didn't seem right. It didn't seem fair. 565 00:39:45,383 --> 00:39:48,761 Harry came to Lesotho in 2004. 566 00:39:48,844 --> 00:39:52,223 In the beginning, he was a young man straight from Eton, 567 00:39:52,306 --> 00:39:56,602 having had massive negative headlines about him. 568 00:39:56,685 --> 00:39:57,978 I didn't know the boy 569 00:39:58,854 --> 00:40:02,525 but I thought, "Well, let's see what we can do with this young man." 570 00:40:03,984 --> 00:40:08,697 -The herds graze on the common land. -Common land, yeah. 571 00:40:08,781 --> 00:40:10,699 We were feeling each other out, 572 00:40:10,783 --> 00:40:13,702 finding out where we were comfortable with each other. 573 00:40:14,829 --> 00:40:17,748 The first time I met Prince Seeiso, he was amazing. 574 00:40:17,832 --> 00:40:20,501 We jumped on horses and rode off to his cattle post. 575 00:40:22,294 --> 00:40:26,924 I think he came here wanting to have time out 576 00:40:27,007 --> 00:40:29,385 from that very aggressive treadmill. 577 00:40:30,511 --> 00:40:33,848 I felt a warmth and acceptance that, 578 00:40:33,931 --> 00:40:36,183 "Okay, I'm here in Lesotho. 579 00:40:36,267 --> 00:40:40,563 I may not know about Lesotho, and I'm here to learn. 580 00:40:41,147 --> 00:40:42,440 I'm not here to tell." 581 00:40:50,072 --> 00:40:55,161 That kind of immediate reaction, not only to me but to the community. 582 00:40:55,244 --> 00:40:59,081 I could see that Harry is very much his mother. 583 00:40:59,665 --> 00:41:01,167 How much of an inspiration has your mother been 584 00:41:01,250 --> 00:41:02,501 in what you're doing here? 585 00:41:02,585 --> 00:41:06,755 Um, massively. Mine, as well as Seeiso's mother. 586 00:41:07,465 --> 00:41:10,050 Both our mothers were hugely connected with AIDS, 587 00:41:10,134 --> 00:41:13,846 especially the orphan children from that itself. 588 00:41:14,972 --> 00:41:17,558 His mother died shortly before I met him. 589 00:41:18,225 --> 00:41:21,395 So, bearing in mind we both lost our moms 590 00:41:21,479 --> 00:41:24,523 it didn't take very long until we became like brothers. 591 00:41:24,607 --> 00:41:26,192 Hey, everyone. 592 00:41:26,275 --> 00:41:29,612 Harry visited almost on a yearly basis after that. 593 00:41:32,406 --> 00:41:37,578 I was 18 years old and wanted to carry my mom's torch 594 00:41:37,661 --> 00:41:41,332 and try to keep her legacy alive and try to make her proud. 595 00:41:41,415 --> 00:41:45,753 …officially opened by Prince Seeiso and Prince Harry, 596 00:41:45,836 --> 00:41:47,588 the founders of Sentebale. 597 00:41:48,506 --> 00:41:51,258 Being allowed to come here and be himself, 598 00:41:51,342 --> 00:41:55,679 for me, I've seen a boy grow into a solid man. 599 00:41:55,763 --> 00:41:58,766 We even gave him a name, actually. A Sosotho name. 600 00:41:59,350 --> 00:42:01,977 Mahale, which means "warrior." 601 00:42:03,521 --> 00:42:05,814 Harry is a warrior in spirit, 602 00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:08,067 and he's a warrior in character. 603 00:42:10,194 --> 00:42:13,155 Lesotho gave me the space and the freedom… 604 00:42:14,782 --> 00:42:18,953 to breathe, to live… and to grow. 605 00:42:25,834 --> 00:42:28,587 I went to Africa, sometimes three months at a time. 606 00:42:29,755 --> 00:42:31,966 Botswana is a country very close to my heart. 607 00:42:32,049 --> 00:42:36,387 The fact that I spend more time here than at home worries my father a lot. 608 00:42:39,723 --> 00:42:41,392 I've got a second family out there. A group 609 00:42:41,475 --> 00:42:44,228 of friends that literally brought me up. 610 00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:50,442 For me, it's always been quite special. 611 00:42:52,403 --> 00:42:56,657 So it was absolutely critical to share it with Meg. 612 00:43:02,454 --> 00:43:03,581 That summer, 613 00:43:03,664 --> 00:43:06,875 I was going to be on hiatus from work but I had travel plans. 614 00:43:06,959 --> 00:43:11,922 And a cast mate of mind had said, "Make sure you leave room for magic." 615 00:43:13,007 --> 00:43:15,467 And as we were talking about, "When are we gonna see each other next?" 616 00:43:15,551 --> 00:43:18,304 He said, "I have to go to Africa to do some conservation work." 617 00:43:18,387 --> 00:43:21,599 He said, "I have one week off." I said, "I have one week off." It was the same week. 618 00:43:22,182 --> 00:43:24,101 So he said, "Do you want to come to Botswana?" 619 00:43:25,060 --> 00:43:29,106 I said, "Let me think about it." And then I did. 620 00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:36,572 I was astonished that she said yes. 621 00:43:37,406 --> 00:43:39,700 This woman that I've only met twice. She's coming 622 00:43:39,783 --> 00:43:43,829 to Botswana and we're going to be living in a tent for five days. Wow. 623 00:43:47,458 --> 00:43:51,545 They were both gonna go to Africa and spend real time together. 624 00:43:51,629 --> 00:43:54,381 So he said, "This is either going to work or not 625 00:43:54,465 --> 00:43:57,343 because we're going to be together twenty four seven. 626 00:44:00,304 --> 00:44:03,641 I'm getting on the plane and I'm going to the middle of the bush? 627 00:44:04,308 --> 00:44:07,102 What? What am I doing? 628 00:44:07,186 --> 00:44:09,063 Like, what if we don't like each other… 629 00:44:09,980 --> 00:44:12,399 and then we're stuck in the middle of the bush in a tent? 630 00:44:16,820 --> 00:44:18,072 It was a leap. 631 00:44:18,906 --> 00:44:24,244 But I think in her heart she just knew that she had to do that with him. 632 00:44:30,709 --> 00:44:34,129 So I get there. This is the first time I've seen him in a month. 633 00:44:36,048 --> 00:44:39,635 It was very awkward at first. Like, "Oh God, do we kiss? Do we…?" 634 00:44:39,718 --> 00:44:41,762 And I just remembered he handed me a chicken sandwich. 635 00:44:42,930 --> 00:44:43,806 Like, oh God. [laughing[ 636 00:44:44,390 --> 00:44:46,183 Then we jumped into the Land Cruiser and off we went. 637 00:44:48,852 --> 00:44:50,729 To start with, we were seated next to each other. 638 00:44:50,813 --> 00:44:52,439 And then we progressed to holding hands. 639 00:44:53,065 --> 00:44:56,527 And then we squeeze in a kiss. And amid the bumps, 640 00:44:56,610 --> 00:44:59,822 and then, everything felt totally normal and natural. 641 00:45:05,285 --> 00:45:10,165 We had to know each other before the rest of the world and the media joined in. 642 00:45:20,259 --> 00:45:23,095 It was all so overwhelming… 643 00:45:26,765 --> 00:45:28,809 to be out there in our little tent 644 00:45:28,892 --> 00:45:31,437 and in the middle of the night, and hear this rustling 645 00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:33,355 and look and see a shadow and go like, "What's that?" 646 00:45:33,439 --> 00:45:36,608 It's like an elephant munching leaves above the tent in the shadows. 647 00:45:36,692 --> 00:45:39,153 I'm like, "Are we safe? Is it fine…" He's like, "We're fine. 648 00:45:39,236 --> 00:45:40,821 Promise I'll keep you safe." 649 00:45:41,989 --> 00:45:43,157 And I believed him. 650 00:45:43,240 --> 00:45:45,200 You put a lot of faith and a lot of trust in me. 651 00:45:45,284 --> 00:45:46,785 -I did. -True. 652 00:45:48,454 --> 00:45:53,167 It just felt so right and felt so normal. 653 00:45:55,752 --> 00:45:57,880 We could both just be completely ourselves. 654 00:45:58,589 --> 00:46:01,425 There's no distraction. There's no cellphone reception. 655 00:46:03,427 --> 00:46:05,471 There's no mirror. There's no bathroom. 656 00:46:05,554 --> 00:46:08,348 There was no, "How do I look?" 657 00:46:10,559 --> 00:46:13,729 Thankfully, we really liked each other. 658 00:46:24,573 --> 00:46:28,535 It was 2016. Meghan and I met up in New York. 659 00:46:30,871 --> 00:46:35,501 We really enjoyed going to have tea and champagne at Bergdorf Goodman. 660 00:46:35,584 --> 00:46:37,503 That would be like, "Let's meet at the tearoom at Bergdorf's." 661 00:46:40,380 --> 00:46:45,052 She's like, "Um… yeah, I er… 662 00:46:47,763 --> 00:46:50,599 I think I met someone and I'm in love." 663 00:46:50,682 --> 00:46:54,978 It's Prince Harry. And I… 664 00:46:55,062 --> 00:46:58,982 I mean, I could just feel everything in her body vibrating. 665 00:47:00,442 --> 00:47:02,444 We have a photo from that moment. 666 00:47:02,528 --> 00:47:05,989 And I was screaming because I could tell it was different. 667 00:47:08,075 --> 00:47:10,911 It was very clear from the moment that she told me about him 668 00:47:10,994 --> 00:47:11,828 that they were in love 669 00:47:11,912 --> 00:47:14,831 and that they were going to go to the ends of the earth to be together. 670 00:47:14,915 --> 00:47:19,253 We knew up until then that we really connected 671 00:47:19,336 --> 00:47:20,462 and really drawn to each other. 672 00:47:20,546 --> 00:47:24,758 But what we were practicalities of how this was actually going to work? 673 00:47:24,841 --> 00:47:27,594 At that point in time, I thought, "Is he allowed to fly? 674 00:47:27,678 --> 00:47:31,557 Can he come visit her?" How does this work logistically? 675 00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:33,267 I think they just invented it. 676 00:47:33,850 --> 00:47:35,936 They invented a way for it to work. 677 00:47:38,564 --> 00:47:41,358 She had a two-week rule, which is very smart, 678 00:47:41,441 --> 00:47:46,071 that said we had to see each other in or around two weeks. 679 00:47:46,154 --> 00:47:48,824 I said, "How is that even possible with the stuff that I'm doing? 680 00:47:48,907 --> 00:47:50,742 I'm not going to be able to see you that much." 681 00:47:50,826 --> 00:47:53,787 It's much easier for me to go see him in the UK. 682 00:47:54,496 --> 00:47:58,625 I could still just get on a commercial flight and go and see him under the radar. 683 00:47:59,668 --> 00:48:01,503 Those first few months when no one knew, 684 00:48:01,587 --> 00:48:03,547 it made more sense for her to come to me. 685 00:48:03,630 --> 00:48:07,718 So that she could come and stay with me on Kensington Palace grounds. 686 00:48:07,801 --> 00:48:09,469 We could jump in the car. We could head up to Windsor 687 00:48:09,553 --> 00:48:11,179 and go for walks around Frogmore 688 00:48:12,222 --> 00:48:13,724 and do all these things together. 689 00:48:13,807 --> 00:48:15,726 So that we could get to know each other 690 00:48:15,809 --> 00:48:20,022 without someone taking your photograph then it becoming like news. 691 00:48:24,401 --> 00:48:25,777 Everything had to be so secretive 692 00:48:25,861 --> 00:48:28,614 so it just accelerates your level of getting to know each other 693 00:48:28,697 --> 00:48:32,326 when you're not out in the world in courtship, you're just together. 694 00:48:46,548 --> 00:48:49,801 Getting her through the police barrier and onto Kensington Palace 695 00:48:49,885 --> 00:48:51,637 was a risk in itself 696 00:48:51,720 --> 00:48:53,472 because people talk, right? 697 00:48:53,555 --> 00:48:56,433 It's not about who you trust. It's about who they trust. 698 00:48:56,516 --> 00:48:57,684 That's literally how it works. 699 00:49:02,481 --> 00:49:04,024 For ordinary members of the public, 700 00:49:04,107 --> 00:49:09,738 we like to think that the Royal Family live extraordinarily privileged lives 701 00:49:09,821 --> 00:49:12,240 with lots of servants and they live in palaces 702 00:49:12,324 --> 00:49:13,700 and they have it very easy. 703 00:49:15,243 --> 00:49:17,496 I don't envy them for one moment. 704 00:49:19,456 --> 00:49:22,668 They live, for me, in a gilded cage. 705 00:49:22,751 --> 00:49:27,130 They lack most of the freedoms that the rest of us take for granted. 706 00:49:28,548 --> 00:49:32,636 They have very little autonomy in choosing their own futures. 707 00:49:33,929 --> 00:49:36,932 Formally, they lack freedom to choose their own religion. 708 00:49:37,015 --> 00:49:39,976 The first half dozen in the line of succession 709 00:49:40,060 --> 00:49:43,897 have to get the queen's permission before they get married. 710 00:49:43,980 --> 00:49:47,234 They don't really have any free choice over their own career. 711 00:49:47,317 --> 00:49:51,655 And the modern media are very intrusive. 712 00:49:57,035 --> 00:50:01,498 Part of the currency of talking about the Royal Family 713 00:50:01,581 --> 00:50:03,417 is to share secrets. 714 00:50:05,419 --> 00:50:06,586 Bigger headline. 715 00:50:08,755 --> 00:50:13,343 A more exposing photograph. A more shocking story. 716 00:50:15,762 --> 00:50:18,306 That's going to get business. That's going to get advertising. 717 00:50:18,932 --> 00:50:22,227 Tabloid culture is a real cut-throat business. 718 00:50:22,310 --> 00:50:26,690 And it creates a real unsettled, paranoid environment. 719 00:50:30,193 --> 00:50:34,781 This idea that, basically, we allow royals to exist, 720 00:50:34,865 --> 00:50:36,742 albeit extravagantly, 721 00:50:36,825 --> 00:50:43,248 on the condition that we're entitled to constant information about their lives. 722 00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:48,378 And I think that particularly affects women in the Royal Family. 723 00:50:50,172 --> 00:50:52,340 I remember someone saying to Meghan, 724 00:50:53,216 --> 00:50:57,137 "If you want to go to the Tate, if you want to see a bit of London, 725 00:50:57,804 --> 00:51:01,141 you better do it now because your life's going to change." 726 00:51:05,020 --> 00:51:09,232 We'd been dating secretly since July. 727 00:51:10,692 --> 00:51:13,320 We'd been so petrified of when it would break. 728 00:51:14,070 --> 00:51:15,906 H tried to prepare me 729 00:51:15,989 --> 00:51:18,950 for what that might be like knowing what he'd experienced in the past. 730 00:51:21,703 --> 00:51:25,624 And then, he and his brother's Communications Secretary, Jason, 731 00:51:25,707 --> 00:51:29,544 called him to let him know that the story was scooped by a tabloid. 732 00:51:30,253 --> 00:51:33,548 He said, "Well, if it's gonna come out tomorrow, let's go and have fun tonight!" 733 00:51:38,220 --> 00:51:41,473 We went to this Halloween party together, 734 00:51:41,556 --> 00:51:43,642 where we could be completely dressed up and no one would know. 735 00:51:44,267 --> 00:51:46,561 -I had a bandana and goggles. -You borrowed a great costume. 736 00:51:46,645 --> 00:51:48,104 Borrowed a great costume. 737 00:51:48,188 --> 00:51:51,441 And we were like, "Well, this might be our last shot to just go out and… 738 00:51:52,609 --> 00:51:54,319 -have fun out in the world. -Pull the pin on the fun grenade, 739 00:51:54,402 --> 00:51:55,237 which we did. 740 00:51:56,738 --> 00:51:59,699 His cousin, Eugenie, and her boyfriend at the time, Jack, 741 00:51:59,783 --> 00:52:01,910 and my friend, Marcus, were there too. 742 00:52:04,788 --> 00:52:07,499 It was so great. Just silly fun. 743 00:52:07,582 --> 00:52:08,750 And then… 744 00:52:13,964 --> 00:52:15,090 You hear that? That is the sound 745 00:52:15,173 --> 00:52:16,800 of hearts breaking all around the world. 746 00:52:16,883 --> 00:52:20,262 It is reported that Prince Harry is dating actress, Meghan Markle. 747 00:52:20,345 --> 00:52:22,472 -Harry's rumored to have a girlfriend… -…the world's most eligible bachelor… 748 00:52:22,556 --> 00:52:24,933 -…transatlantic alliance… -…It is believed they met last summer… 749 00:52:25,016 --> 00:52:27,769 Next morning, it was so overwhelming. 750 00:52:27,853 --> 00:52:30,021 …the Prince and his American sweetheart… 751 00:52:30,105 --> 00:52:33,358 I said, "Okay. Well then, I'll just treat it like we're in the bush. 752 00:52:33,441 --> 00:52:35,068 Because, like, it's all foreign to me 753 00:52:35,652 --> 00:52:37,612 but I trust that you'll keep me safe, 754 00:52:37,696 --> 00:52:38,947 and you'll get me through it." 755 00:52:39,030 --> 00:52:41,658 -She describes herself as mixed-race… -…straight outta Compton… 756 00:52:41,741 --> 00:52:42,659 …from the wrong side of the tracks… 757 00:52:42,742 --> 00:52:44,494 She's just a very different type of person that I don't think 758 00:52:44,578 --> 00:52:48,540 your average member of the public thinks of when they think of "Royal Family." 759 00:52:49,124 --> 00:52:52,961 Naively, I didn't know what I was walking into. 760 00:52:56,006 --> 00:52:58,717 But in October of 2016, 761 00:52:58,800 --> 00:53:01,428 when suddenly, everything changed. 762 00:53:01,511 --> 00:53:03,805 Meghan is very much a deviation… 763 00:53:03,889 --> 00:53:06,683 -…lured Harry away from us -Meghan seems to be 764 00:53:06,766 --> 00:53:09,227 a version of the Antichrist… 765 00:54:43,238 --> 00:54:49,661 Subtitle translation by: Regina Njoku